Our coaches

Interested in matching with a coach or becoming a coach? Contact us.

Some topics that our clients come to our coaches to help with:

Text message analysis - help interpret texts and help craft new ones.

Dating app profile review - how are you presenting yourself?

Vent sessions - after a good or bad date, we're here to talk via video or chat.

Aaron

As a native New Yorker with eight years of professional experience in NYC and the first 5 of those years navigating the dating scene, I've gained experience in various types of relationships, including monogamous, ENM (ethical non-monogamy), and open relationships. As a trusted confidant to family and friends, I provide unbiased perspectives on tough conversations and help tackle effective communication efforts for both men and women alike. If you need assistance with interpreting or formulating texts, planning meaningful dates, revamping your dating profile, spicing up your current relationship, or exploring different relationship dynamics, I am here to share my experience and insights with you.

Avery

Hi, I'm Avery! If you're reading this, you already have my respect and admiration, because you're already giving the dating process the consideration that it deserves! My job is to help you discover what this consideration can accomplish at any stage of a relationship. After 7 years of living (and dating) in Los Angeles and Dallas, I greatly value the support and guidance from trusted people in my life and enjoy being that source of support for others. Regardless of your goals and circumstance, I'm here (and can't wait) to help!

Chris

Hey y'all - I'm Chris! As a resident of Manhattan for the last 8 years and being single for the first half of those years, I understand how much of a slog the NYC dating scene can be. Throughout the years, I've been the go-to person in my group for dating advice (both guys and girls), and I'd love to help you, too. Whether interpreting vague texts, planning a fun 3rd date, dating profile re-vamps, or just a general strategy session on how your dating life is going - I am here to help. I'd love to work with you - feel free to book a time below!

Evan

Hey single NYers. If you’ve been thinking to yourself, I could really use the sage advice of a recently married man in his 30s with some empathy and perspective, look no further. As the go-to guy for advice in my friend group, I've helped many friends successfully navigate the dating scene and discover the style that works best for them. Now, I'm here to share my insights and experience with you. If you're tired of swiping left and right with little luck or just looking for some advice on how to approach that special someone, give me a shout!

Halie

I'm Halie and I'm here to help guide you to the top of dating in the Big Apple! The anxieties, fear, sweat, and tears of walking out your front door are real when it comes to first dates. 'll be your sounding board, helping you gain clarity, build confidence, and embrace the journey of self-discovery that dating in your early 20s offers. I am here to listen without judgment and advice with compassion to help you find who you have been looking for!

Jenna

Hey! I'm Jenna and I have been a go-to person for dating advice for my friends throughout my adult life. I have been through it all in the dating realm - tough breakups post long-term relationships, actively on dating apps, blind dates, long-distance, office romances, etc. While dating can often feel like it is about finding the right person, so much of it is finding out who makes you feel like the absolute best version of YOU. I also understand that unspoken dating rules or "games" can feel overwhelming and induce self-doubt. I am here to be your friend and talk through any fears or questions or advice you might want when it comes to your dating life - whether it spans from a first date to a long-term relationship!

Lexi

My passion for helping others has always been a driving force in my life, leading me to not only be the “go to” friend for advice, but to also pursue a career in counseling. I understand that dating in today’s world can feel like riding a rollercoaster. It is a thrilling yet challenging experience, filled with twists and turns of uncertainty, excitement, and disappointment. I am here to ride this rollercoaster with you and make it as fun and seamless as possible! As a coach, I am empathetic, genuine, and motivated to empower you with the tools, insight, and support to navigate the complexities of dating with clarity and confidence. Whether that’s by helping decode confusing texts, revamping your dating profile, or exploring your relationship goals, I will meet you where you are at and help you get to where you want to go!

Lida

Welcome! I'm Lida, I use they/she pronouns and as a queer, non-binary, non-monogamous individual, I deeply resonate with inclusivity, community, and am committed to offering up my full toolbelt of dating and relating skills to you. I hope that you'll bring your whole self to our work together too! I've done two years of coursework in gender and sexuality, so I completely nerd out about the science of attraction. I am also a licensed therapist. I firmly believe every client's situation is unique, and that context is so important! Relationships always take effort and communication. Being an immigrant, and having received little to no sexual education growing up, made it difficult for me to navigate my boundaries in interpersonal relationships. My passion is helping folks assert their own needs in dating while having fun because if you're not having fun dating, then why are you doing it!?

Lulu

Hi, I’m Lulu! I’ve been in NYC for the past 7 years, 5 of those single and dating in the city. I’ve dated individuals of varying cultural, professional, educational, and even political backgrounds, and have data points and intel to help you navigate your personal journey. From discovering what your key values and priorities are to navigating family expectations to figuring out whether or not you are being treated fairly and respectfully in a dating situation, I am your girl. No two individuals are the same but my take is that while time and commitment are crucial, a little strategy can go a long way, and I’m here to help with yours!

Maddie

Hey, I’m Maddie! For the last 4 years, I’ve been living in Los Angeles and New York and have guided countless friends and clients through every stage of dating, from creating app profiles to crafting texts, date planning, defining relationships, and more. With a background in human development and psychotherapy, I understand how to harness the powerful psychology of attraction and attachment in the dating phase and beyond. As a coach, I’m empathetic, honest, and direct - here to build up your confidence, ease any anxiety, and hold you accountable to reach your dating goals – and have fun along the way! The answer to all your dating woes is one click away :)

Nina

Hey, I’m Nina! I believe there is love out there for everyone, but you won’t find your perfect match until you feel your best self. I’m equal parts empathetic and honest and I’m here to talk through all the twists and turns of modern dating. A very smart friend of mine once told me, “it only takes one” to change your love life and I can’t wait to be your secret wing woman on your journey to finding your one true love.

Rae

Hey, I'm Rae! I've lived and loved all over the world, and I'm so excited to share my modern dating knowledge and guidance with you! I've been the designated dating guru for my friends over the years, and stay fascinated by the intersection of interpersonal relationships, communication and technology. From dating in San Diego, Denver and New York (to name a few), I have a wide lens view of the different approaches and nuances of dating apps. It's not an easy code to crack! Coaching with me means not only personalized feedback and advice, but recommendations for books, podcasts and articles to offer you additional resources to grow on your own! As a certified yoga teacher, I integrate mindfulness into my approach, coaching from a holistic wellbeing perspective. I'm so excited to meet you! Xo

Lida

Welcome! I'm Lida, I use they/she pronouns and as a queer, non-binary, non-monogamous individual, I deeply resonate with inclusivity, community, and am committed to offering up my full toolbelt of dating and relating skills to you. I hope that you'll bring your whole self to our work together too! I've done two years of coursework in gender and sexuality, so I completely nerd out about the science of attraction. I am also a licensed therapist. I firmly believe every client's situation is unique, and that context is so important! Relationships always take effort and communication. Being an immigrant, and having received little to no sexual education growing up, made it difficult for me to navigate my boundaries in interpersonal relationships. My passion is helping folks assert their own needs in dating while having fun because if you're not having fun dating, then why are you doing it!?

Halie

I'm Halie and I'm here to help guide you to the top of dating in the Big Apple! The anxieties, fear, sweat, and tears of walking out your front door are real when it comes to first dates. 'll be your sounding board, helping you gain clarity, build confidence, and embrace the journey of self-discovery that dating in your early 20s offers. I am here to listen without judgment and advice with compassion to help you find who you have been looking for!

Maddie

Hey, I’m Maddie! For the last 4 years, I’ve been living in Los Angeles and New York and have guided countless friends and clients through every stage of dating, from creating app profiles to crafting texts, date planning, defining relationships, and more. With a background in human development and psychotherapy, I understand how to harness the powerful psychology of attraction and attachment in the dating phase and beyond. As a coach, I’m empathetic, honest, and direct - here to build up your confidence, ease any anxiety, and hold you accountable to reach your dating goals – and have fun along the way! The answer to all your dating woes is one click away :)

Lexi

My passion for helping others has always been a driving force in my life, leading me to not only be the “go to” friend for advice, but to also pursue a career in counseling. I understand that dating in today’s world can feel like riding a rollercoaster. It is a thrilling yet challenging experience, filled with twists and turns of uncertainty, excitement, and disappointment. I am here to ride this rollercoaster with you and make it as fun and seamless as possible! As a coach, I am empathetic, genuine, and motivated to empower you with the tools, insight, and support to navigate the complexities of dating with clarity and confidence. Whether that’s by helping decode confusing texts, revamping your dating profile, or exploring your relationship goals, I will meet you where you are at and help you get to where you want to go!

Lulu

Hi, I’m Lulu! I’ve been in NYC for the past 7 years, 5 of those single and dating in the city. I’ve dated individuals of varying cultural, professional, educational, and even political backgrounds, and have data points and intel to help you navigate your personal journey. From discovering what your key values and priorities are to navigating family expectations to figuring out whether or not you are being treated fairly and respectfully in a dating situation, I am your girl. No two individuals are the same but my take is that while time and commitment are crucial, a little strategy can go a long way, and I’m here to help with yours!

Nina

Hey, I’m Nina! I believe there is love out there for everyone, but you won’t find your perfect match until you feel your best self. I’m equal parts empathetic and honest and I’m here to talk through all the twists and turns of modern dating. A very smart friend of mine once told me, “it only takes one” to change your love life and I can’t wait to be your secret wing woman on your journey to finding your one true love.

Jenna

Hey! I'm Jenna and I have been a go-to person for dating advice for my friends throughout my adult life. I have been through it all in the dating realm - tough breakups post long-term relationships, actively on dating apps, blind dates, long-distance, office romances, etc. While dating can often feel like it is about finding the right person, so much of it is finding out who makes you feel like the absolute best version of YOU. I also understand that unspoken dating rules or "games" can feel overwhelming and induce self-doubt. I am here to be your friend and talk through any fears or questions or advice you might want when it comes to your dating life - whether it spans from a first date to a long-term relationship!

Avery

Hi, I'm Avery! If you're reading this, you already have my respect and admiration, because you're already giving the dating process the consideration that it deserves! My job is to help you discover what this consideration can accomplish at any stage of a relationship. After 7 years of living (and dating) in Los Angeles and Dallas, I greatly value the support and guidance from trusted people in my life and enjoy being that source of support for others. Regardless of your goals and circumstance, I'm here (and can't wait) to help!

Rae

Hey, I'm Rae! I've lived and loved all over the world, and I'm so excited to share my modern dating knowledge and guidance with you! I've been the designated dating guru for my friends over the years, and stay fascinated by the intersection of interpersonal relationships, communication and technology. From dating in San Diego, Denver and New York (to name a few), I have a wide lens view of the different approaches and nuances of dating apps. It's not an easy code to crack! Coaching with me means not only personalized feedback and advice, but recommendations for books, podcasts and articles to offer you additional resources to grow on your own! As a certified yoga teacher, I integrate mindfulness into my approach, coaching from a holistic wellbeing perspective. I'm so excited to meet you! Xo

Aaron

As a native New Yorker with eight years of professional experience in NYC and the first 5 of those years navigating the dating scene, I've gained experience in various types of relationships, including monogamous, ENM (ethical non-monogamy), and open relationships. As a trusted confidant to family and friends, I provide unbiased perspectives on tough conversations and help tackle effective communication efforts for both men and women alike. If you need assistance with interpreting or formulating texts, planning meaningful dates, revamping your dating profile, spicing up your current relationship, or exploring different relationship dynamics, I am here to share my experience and insights with you.

Evan

Hey single NYers. If you’ve been thinking to yourself, I could really use the sage advice of a recently married man in his 30s with some empathy and perspective, look no further. As the go-to guy for advice in my friend group, I've helped many friends successfully navigate the dating scene and discover the style that works best for them. Now, I'm here to share my insights and experience with you. If you're tired of swiping left and right with little luck or just looking for some advice on how to approach that special someone, give me a shout!

Chris

Hey y'all - I'm Chris! As a resident of Manhattan for the last 8 years and being single for the first half of those years, I understand how much of a slog the NYC dating scene can be. Throughout the years, I've been the go-to person in my group for dating advice (both guys and girls), and I'd love to help you, too. Whether interpreting vague texts, planning a fun 3rd date, dating profile re-vamps, or just a general strategy session on how your dating life is going - I am here to help. I'd love to work with you - feel free to book a time below!

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