See a list of the most commonly asked questions below:

What is Vance?

Vance is a dating coaching platform that connects people who are frustrated in their dating lives with coaches who help them through the anxieties of modern dating. Think of us like Talkspace or BetterHelp for dating.

How much is it to book time with a coach?

We offer a per-session model and a texting-first model (which includes 1 session with a coach and unlimited texting/screenshots to a coach).

On what channels do I communicate with my coach?

Video sessions will be via Zoom or Google Meet. With our texting model, you can also communicate with your coach via text or email.

What even is a dating coach?

We have coaches in other areas of our lives - fitness, career, etc. We look at a dating coach as someone to help you effectively navigate modern, hold you accountable, and be in your corner with advice and support.

Who are the coaches?

Our typical coach is one who has been there before - they have a passion for giving advice (and are the go-to person for their friends), they have high emotional intelligence and have been in the trenches of modern city dating. Many of our coaches have psychotherapy backgrounds and understand the psychology of attraction and attachment. All of our coaches are vetted, trained, and experienced.

How do I know which coach is right for me?

Great question! We have you fill out an initial form to understand what you are looking for in a dating coach and pair you up with the best-fit coach. If the initial match doesn’t feel right, we can always find you another coach.

How do I sign-up?

Email us as hello@joinvance.com, or shoot us a text at (646) 988 - 9035 and we can respond quickly with whatever question you might have!

Did we miss your question? Drop us a line or shoot us a text at (646) 988 - 9035.